"Why was my burden so heavy?" I slammed the bedroom door
and leaned against it. Is there no rest from this life? I wondered. I stumbled to my bed and dropped onto it, pressing
my pillow around my ears to shut out the noise of my existence.
"Oh God," I cried, "let me sleep. Let me sleep forever and never wake up!" With a deep sob I tried
to will myself into oblivion, then welcomed the blackness that came over me.
Light surrounded me as I regained consciousness. I focused on its source: the figure of a man standing before a cross.
"My child," the person asked, "why did you want to come to Me before I am ready to call you?"
"Lord, I'm sorry. It's just that... I can't go on. You see how hard it isfor me. Look at this awful burden on my
back. I simply can't carry it anymore."
"But haven't I told you to cast all of your burdens upon Me,
because I care for you? My yoke is easy, and My burden is light."
"I knew You would say that. But why does mine have to be so
"My child, everyone in the world has a burden. Perhaps you
would like to try a different one?"
"I can do that?"
He pointed to several burdens lying at His feet. "You may
try any of these."
All of them seemed to be of equal size. But each was
labeled with a name.
"There's Joan's," I said. Joan was married to a wealthy
businessman. She lived in a sprawling estate and dressed
her three daughters in the prettiest designer clothes.
Sometimes she drove me to church in her Cadillac when my car was broken.
"Let me try that one." How difficult could her burden be?
The Lord removed my burden and placed Joan's on my
shoulders. I sank to my knees beneath its weight.
"Take it off!" I said. "What makes it so heavy?"
I untied the straps and opened the top. Inside was a
figure of her Mother-in-law, and when I lifted it out, it began to
"Joan, you'll never be good enough for my son," it began.
"He never should have married you. You're a terrible mother to my
I quickly placed the figure back in the pack and withdrew
another. It was Donna, Joan's youngest daughter. Her head was bandaged from the surgery that had failed to
resolve her epilepsy.
A third figure was Joan's brother. Addicted to drugs, he
had been convicted of killing a police officer.
"I see why her burden is so heavy, Lord. But she's always
smiling and helping others. I didn't realize..."
"Would you like to try another?" He asked quietly.
I tested several. Paula's felt heavy: She was raising four
small boys without a father. Debra's did too: a childhood of sexual
abuse and a marriage of emotional abuse. When I came to Ruth's burden, I didn't even try. I knew that inside
I would find
arthritis, old age, a demanding full-time job, and a beloved husband in a nursing home.
"They're all too heavy, Lord," I said. "Give back my own."
As I lifted the familiar load once again, it seemed much
lighter than the others.
"Lets look inside" He said.
I turned away, holding it close. "That's not a good idea,"
"There's a lot of junk in there."
"Let Me see."
The gentle thunder of His voice compelled me. I opened my
He pulled out a brick.
"Tell me about this one."
"Lord, You know. It's money. I know we don't suffer like
people in some countries or even the homeless here in America. But we
have no insurance, and when the kids get sick, we can't always take them to the doctor. They've never been
to a dentist. And I'm tired of dressing them in hand-me-downs."
"My child, I will supply all of your needs... and your
children's. I've given them healthy bodies. I will teach them that
expensive clothing doesn't make a person valuable in My sight."
Then He lifted out the figure of a small boy. "And this?"
"Andrew..." I hung my head, ashamed to call my son a
burden. "But, Lord, he's hyperactive. He's not quiet like the
other two. He makes me so tired. He's always getting hurt, and someone is bound to think I abuse him. I
yell at him all the time. Someday I may really hurt him...."
"My child," He said, "if you trust Me, I will renew your
strength, If you allow Me to fill you with My Spirit, I will give you
Then He took some pebbles from my burden.
"Yes, Lord," I said with a sigh. "Those are small. But
they're important. I hate my hair. It's thin, and I can't make it look nice.
I can't afford to go to the beauty shop. I'm overweight and can't stay on
a diet. I hate all my clothes. I hate the way I look!"
"My child, people look at your outward appearance, but I
look at your heart. By My Spirit you can gain self-control to lose
weight. But your beauty should not come from outward appearance. Instead, it should come from your inner
self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in My sight."
My burden now seemed lighter than before.
"I guess I can handle it now" I said.
"There is more," He said. "Hand Me that last brick."
"Oh, You don't have to take that. I can handle it."
"My child, give it to Me." Again His voice compelled me.
He reached out His hand, and for the first time I saw the ugly wound.
"But, Lord, this brick is so awful, so nasty, so.....Lord!
What happened to Your hands? They're so scarred!"
No longer focused on my burden, I looked for the first
time into His face. In His brow were ragged scars -- as though someone had pressed thorns into His flesh.
"Lord," I whispered. "What happened to You?"
His loving eyes reached into my soul.
"My child, you know. Hand Me the brick. It belongs to Me.
I bought it."
"With My blood."
"But why, Lord?"
"Because I have loved you with and everlasting love. Give
it to Me."
I placed the filthy brick into His wounded palm. It
contained all the dirt and evil of my life: my pride, my selfishness, the
depression that constantly tormented me.
He turned to the cross and hurled my brick into the pool
of blood at its base. It hardly made a ripple.
"Now, My child, you need to go back. I will be with you
always. When you are troubled, call to Me and I will help you and show
you things you cannot imagine now."
"Yes, Lord, I will call on You."
I reached to pick up my burden.
"You may leave that here if you wish. You see all these
burdens? They are the ones that others have left at My feet. Joan's,
Paula's, Debra's, Ruth's.....When you leave your burden here, I carry it for you.
Remember, My yoke is easy and My burden is light."
As I placed my burden with Him, the light began to fade.
Yet I heard Him whisper, "I will never leave you, nor forsake you."
A peace flooded my soul.
"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I
will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am
gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is
light." (Matthew 11:28-30)